is that what people assume?
maybe they just don't want to be weird and creepy?
because it is weird and creepy to want discussions with adults and minors about inappropriate topics
and, it CAN affect people for life as far as i know (speaking from experience) i'm glad i didn't turn out worse
(yes i was a teenager doing sex, it was still a horrible thing to have adults who wanted to talk about my horny/their horny around me)