the marry you person is a gamble, they're moving very very fast so idk if i'd trust them not to change their mind just as quickly, i would be open to discussing whether our future goals align on day 3, but they're gonna have to wait (probably a long time) for the actual marriage
and if someone refuses labels after 6 months i'd decide we're incompatible, i don't like unclear boundaries and i would feel like they're leading me on