A lot of it is ragebait is specifically curated and commented to be the most likely to garner a reaction out of you. They'll purposely pick the topics they know will hurt you; repeat offenders will usually spend a good amount of time on your page to get an idea of what will set you off.

Think of it less as needing to defend yourself / be the bigger person, and more along the lines of "my time is precious, and is best spent working on what brings me peace of mind." When you focus on your priorities, it becomes easier to shift your mindset away from negative attention.

There is no way to avoid hatred; the only way out, is back in!

Sending you a big hug through the screen regardless <3