for a lot of asexuals though this is Not how their lack of attraction works, they do NOT have that one exception. but sexuality or lack thereof is fluid that way. i have been in relationships where my gender preference did not match with the other person and we were pretty happy! things just happen

nah u sound curious, it got me thinking abt it for the 1st time in a while!

asexuality is a spectrum much like say bisexuality where someone may prefer dating one gender more than another but still be interested in multiple genders Vs a bisexual interested in more than one gender rather equally among genders

my asexuality fits the definition in that i do not feel sexual attraction to pretty much Anyone. just the one person got extremely lucky (?) to get landed with all my attractions. this has only happened once before. there is a specific name for this if you look up asexuality terms but i am a 1000 years old & lost track of which one it is and it is late & i should be asleep, lol

i get this maybe it seems fairly normal, but it is the fact that if this person was not in my life i find the idea of sex outside the boundaries of my head repulsive and unappealing - the repulsive part is important here. idk how else to better describe it. there are definitely people who experience similar+can word this better